Showing posts with label SELF-IMPROVEMENT. Show all posts
Showing posts with label SELF-IMPROVEMENT. Show all posts
How To Be Friends With Famous Person?
There was a time when they said mixing yourself with famous and rich people is no-no. – “It’s a too hard-edged personality, and deserves a high respect.” Don’t dwell on the sad fact that it clearly takes a lot of effort to be friends with media magnet, public figure or a high-class persona. I will take comfort in the fact that being a friend of a famous person will elevate everyone they touch.
I had a huge circle of friends and didn’t feel to need to get any closer than necessary with my colleagues until six months ago when my brother commissioned me to create a debutante ball of her daughter, it made me so proud, everything inspires me when I met a woman, from the big picture of philosophies to little gestures that go a long way. Miss Lani Mercado, brand as famous in the heady world of show business and wife of Senator Ramon (Bong) Revilla of Senate of the Philippines. At first I expect her to be a certain way, but she just isn’t. I felt her warm when started talking about herself and her plans in the community. You expect that the famous and rich blood flowing through her veins would make her somewhat intimidatingly proper, but as she lets fly with her tireless charity works you feel that idea of humanitarianism. We talked a lot of inspiring topics–she opened the door for me to be noticed of my creativity in the event management, sat comfortably in the living room, happily watching on the plasma screen and the rest is history.
Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock, you’ll end up only staring at the stars like a fool. Get off from that chair and these tips are simple things and doable, there’s no excuse to not being befriend with them, at least shake their hands. The first baby step you need to consider is to know their personality. Nothing would please them if you compliment on their achievements and success. Log on and introduced yourself, comment on their recent project. Nothing goes to waste on this path. Many people start through online conversation find drawn into a longer friendship. Choose the right spot, like Facebook, Linkedin and Twitter and stay alert with—information, upcoming event and their whereabouts. The idea is to speed-way one-on-one with them. Make it your goal to speak first, so it’s especially important to your overall strategies to touch your goal. As you move around, you also tend to interact with other prominent people around the cubicle. This keeps your standard level high from your colleagues.
There’s nothing better than taking on something that’s absolutely new. Once you fit in the role of making friends with the famous, everything becomes mechanical. At the same time it give us confidence to look more deeper into ourselves and not be afraid to embrace an exciting unknown, opening our nous to all that is there out now.
Why I'm Not Ashamed Of My Failures
Ohhhhhh....so much to say..one..two..three...a lot in achieving what I really wanted to be. But I don't meddle with the past.. what is more important is today and the future. I look forward to what is better now. From my failures I learn to be a much better person, analyzing my mistakes, it's a learning experience that I went through.
Now, let me share with you what the expert says about Failures...Why He's not ashamed of his failures, after all?
Why I'm Not Ashamed of My Failures
By Michael Masterson
I've had plenty of failures in my life -- in business, in sports, in achieving my goals. But I don't spend much time ruing my failures. I may think about them for a day or two, analyzing what I did wrong. But afterward, I hardly think of them at all. And if I do, I don't feel badly about them. They seem like interesting experiences that happened to someone else -- the person I was before I made the mistake. If anything, they amuse me. They really do.
I'm proud of my successes. And I'm ashamed of my personal failings -- e.g., my tendency to do something every year at a big Christmas party that I regret the next day. But I am not ashamed of my failures.
There is a difference between failures and failings. A failure is falling short of a goal you set. A failing is falling short of a standard you set for your behavior.
Overall, this attitude serves me well.
The shame I feel when I betray my dignity is constructive. It helps me elevate my behavior in the future.
The pride I feel in my accomplishments motivates me. I don't dwell on them. I try not to brag about them. I use them to tell myself, when challenged, "You've done this before. You can do it again."
The amusement I feel when I think about (or am reminded of) past failures is good too. It keeps my ego in check. And it makes it easy for me to try again.
If you want to accomplish great things in your life, you must be willing to set goals that are big enough and new enough to change your business, social, cultural, or personal environment. But since they are big and new, you run the risk of failure. By taking pride in your accomplishments and being amused by your failures, you will always be motivated to do more. And your mind will be clear to focus on the hardest thing: not making a fool of yourself at the next Christmas party.
This article appears courtesy of Early To Rise, a free newsletter dedicated to making money, improving health and secrets to success. For a complimentary subscription, visit http://www.earlytorise.com.
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Now, let me share with you what the expert says about Failures...Why He's not ashamed of his failures, after all?
Why I'm Not Ashamed of My Failures
By Michael Masterson
I've had plenty of failures in my life -- in business, in sports, in achieving my goals. But I don't spend much time ruing my failures. I may think about them for a day or two, analyzing what I did wrong. But afterward, I hardly think of them at all. And if I do, I don't feel badly about them. They seem like interesting experiences that happened to someone else -- the person I was before I made the mistake. If anything, they amuse me. They really do.
I'm proud of my successes. And I'm ashamed of my personal failings -- e.g., my tendency to do something every year at a big Christmas party that I regret the next day. But I am not ashamed of my failures.
There is a difference between failures and failings. A failure is falling short of a goal you set. A failing is falling short of a standard you set for your behavior.
Overall, this attitude serves me well.
The shame I feel when I betray my dignity is constructive. It helps me elevate my behavior in the future.
The pride I feel in my accomplishments motivates me. I don't dwell on them. I try not to brag about them. I use them to tell myself, when challenged, "You've done this before. You can do it again."
The amusement I feel when I think about (or am reminded of) past failures is good too. It keeps my ego in check. And it makes it easy for me to try again.
If you want to accomplish great things in your life, you must be willing to set goals that are big enough and new enough to change your business, social, cultural, or personal environment. But since they are big and new, you run the risk of failure. By taking pride in your accomplishments and being amused by your failures, you will always be motivated to do more. And your mind will be clear to focus on the hardest thing: not making a fool of yourself at the next Christmas party.
This article appears courtesy of Early To Rise, a free newsletter dedicated to making money, improving health and secrets to success. For a complimentary subscription, visit http://www.earlytorise.com.
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